7 Tips on Refreshing Your Relationship

Being in a relationship can be very rewarding. However, there are always going to be ups and downs even in the best of them. It’s also likely to become a little stale and boring. The tendency for many modern couples is to throw in the towel when this happens but all that’s required is a little bit of effort, and any tired relationship can blossom. It can be difficult to find the time for some tender loving care, especially when there are other responsibilities to take care of. If you want some help because your relationship has lost its sparkle, here are some ways you can refresh and revitalise it.

  • Make time for each other – every day of every week you must make time for each other, even if it’s only half an hour here and there. Organise a date night every week and let everyone around you know that on that one night your time is reserved for each other.
  • Do fun things together – it’s very easy to get stuck in a rut and do the same things. You can foster intimacy by doing fun things together. For your date nights take it in turns to choose what you’ll do. One week you might decide to visit the theatre, while another week you might choose to go and watch a sports game. Tickets for a variety of different events can be purchased from ticketsales.com.
  • Long-term activities – make a plan to do something long-term together. It could be learning something new, for example, taking dancing classes or learning a new language. Doing a long-term activity together helps you to stay connected and foster a common
  • Keep the romance alive – over time the romance in a relationship tends to fade. To keep it alive requires effort from both parties. Everyday pressures and time constraints also take their toll and spontaneity goes out of the window. Keeping the romance alive in your relationship means it stays fresh and exciting and brings you closer together.
  • Resolve conflicts quickly – if you don’t resolve your conflicts then it will foster long-term hurt and resentment. Of course, there are going to be times when you disagree. The important thing is to move on from the disagreement quickly.
  • Communication – communication is key to a working relationship. Sit down together regularly and talk. Don’t be afraid or ashamed to share your feelings and concerns with each other, together with your aspirations and dreams. Being honest with each other means you be able to work together and improve your relationship.
  • Remember why you fell in love – this can often be the hardest thing to do. Get out some old photos or your wedding album and remind yourselves why you fell in love and why you’re still together after all this time. Remembering the connection you had in the past will highlight why you’re trying to rekindle those feelings.

Your relationship is one of the most important things you have which is why you shouldn’t give up on it just because it’s become predictable. All it takes is a little bit of effort, and lots of communication and the spark will return.

Kelly Tate

Kelly is a full-time supermum, caring for two kids and a hardworking husband. A cook, a cleaner, a carer and all round hard worker, striving for the perfect family life (with a few bumps along the way!) Eternally honest and sometimes brutally forward, no topics are off limits with Kelly.
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